Point of View: Ian Kirk considers the mood of the SMBI

from bayjournal.com.au
There are those who bemoan that their cup is half empty while others rejoice in the fact that they’re fortunate to have a cup half full.

The former are likely to never be satisfied with their lot in life while the latter has greater joy because they’re much more easily pleased. The former pass on their dissatisfaction to a vast number of people while the latter consciously impart their joy to a handful; but they are always the people whose company you enjoy.

Such it is with Island living. There are those whose focus is on discrimination and a half empty cup of perceived needs. Then there are those whose cup is half full who rejoice in every day and the songs of the birds, the cooling sea breezes, the sparkle of sunlight on the waters of beautiful Moreton Bay, a fish on the bite, a walk in tree clad lanes, a refreshing dip in the bay, a glass with friends while watching the sunset over the water, the lack of traffic, the friendships, the help when its needed and a vast array of interests and sports catered for.

Then there is the joy of seeing children at play in the streets, parks, bush and beach without the need of protection from predators.

The shopping too is ‘an event’ where most customers are known to the staff by name and it’s impossible to walk home without being offered a lift- ‘car out of action mate?’

Our community is helped enormously by the countless volunteers who give freely of their time and usually at their own expense. These wonderful folk need a smile, a handshake and a thank you for their efforts and not, ‘They should have done more’ comments. Better still, offer to lend a hand. Many of us have been placed in a situation where we have too much time and not enough to occupy it. Volunteering gives us purpose, a sense of achievement and new friendships.

And guess what else? It tends to ‘fill the cup’ for everyone as the real needs are met as the result of your efforts. Seeing people’s joy because of your efforts is better than the yummiest chocolate or most delicious drink.

So instead of sitting around having a collective grizzle maybe you can discuss a way for you and your friends to make positive changes- blimey the cup may even overflow!

PS Oh, if you do have a flash of brilliance, it is polite to ask around. Some one may already be working on your idea. Better to help them than to interfere.

Crikey! If that’s the case you could enjoy instant gratification for very little effort! Now, that’ a fantastic outcome. The ultimate cup full scenario.